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Quite interesting. This trip passed through Yingshan, the hometown of hot springs; Xuancheng, the hometown of Xuanzhi paper; and Qimen, the capital of black tea. If you don't drive yourself, you wouldn't know about these places, nor would you realize that even the smallest places have some standout projects they are proud of.

Treat every conversation with others as an opportunity to practice my communication skills and emotional intelligence. Focus on listening, adjusting tone and word choice—not just expressing what I want to say, but analyzing what the other person wants to hear. One goal is to gather information through communication; the other is to practice using language to achieve my objectives and understand people's minds. Recently, I have been consciously training myself in this way. I hope to develop the ability to make others feel as if they are bathed in spring breeze just by interacting with me. Speak

A person's demeanor is an important aspect that sets them apart from others. How can one improve their demeanor? Accumulate a wealth of knowledge and information, broaden your horizons, observe and interpret others' expressions and reactions, and consciously practice. Listening is more important than speaking. Starting now, intentionally dedicate a year to training and see the results. I will share my study notes here.

If you don't take the wrong path, you'll never arrive in the city of Changde. Staying at the best hotel locally is also very affordable. Since you're here, just settle in and make the most of it. The universe's arrangement is always the best. Tomorrow, I'll be traveling and exploring this city, enjoying delicious food. I want to spend every day leisurely eating, drinking, and staying comfortably.

Zhangjiajie is worth visiting.

📎February 2026 Review 1. From the position of the strong, start with your intentions 2. Every flower, grass, tree, and person in this world is just an element to replenish my energy field As long as there is a very clear development direction, then grasp this main line, and then all people, events, and things become elements that achieve your main line They are here to empower you They are accelerators for your main line They can help me complete my main line tasks more quickly

It's quite enjoyable to be a bride.

I made a really bad hairstyle for the wedding, and I regret it. Everything needs to be well-prepared, young people.

I'm getting married soon, just a few hours from now. Just want to record this moment in life. Last night, I treated my family to hotpot, and then my dad and mom went to bed early. I'm alone in this spacious wedding room. In the past, my parents would always accompany me whenever I did anything and never let me spend money. I would treat them to meals or buy things, and my dad and mom would pay first. Last night seemed to be the first time everyone implicitly agreed that I would pay the bill. It felt like my parents were finally stepping back from their responsibilities.

Recently reading Eileen Chang, very interesting. But my writing skills are not good enough, and I don't know how to describe this kind of fun. Anyway, go check it out.

Ate too much during the New Year 🙂 Clanging and showing off, can't stop, help!

These three books can help you develop a long-term perspective: "The Book of Changes," "Guiguzi," and "Gaslighting Effect." 1. "The Book of Changes": Focuses on the "big picture" and "trend awareness." "The Book of Changes" does not teach fortune-telling; it teaches the laws of change in all things. Core takeaway: It helps you understand that everything has "precursors" (good or bad omens). It teaches you how to see crises from a high vantage point (like a soaring dragon with regrets) and how to accumulate strength during lows (like a hidden dragon not yet ready to act).

Identity: A gas station attendant and part-time security guard in Vermont, USA.
Lifestyle: Extremely frugal, even pinning his worn-out coat with safety pins, driving a used car.
Strategy: He has no insider information; he simply saves from his modest salary to buy dividend-paying blue-chip stocks (such as Procter & Gamble, JPMorgan Chase, Johnson & Johnson, etc.), then holds them for decades and reinvests the dividends.
Outcome:

I just heard a podcast case study (the story of Ronald Read) about an ordinary old man who ended up with a net worth of $8 million. As an average person, he didn't do anything extraordinary or strategic; he simply made one correct move—he used his remaining money to buy blue-chip stocks. He did nothing else, just kept the money there day after day, letting the snowball grow over a lifetime. In the end, what started small became large, rolling out $8 million. Thinking about the largest position he held in his hands, it was still...

With all this money, why don't you spend it on yourself? Are you saving it to lend to others? Eat the best, live in the best, wear the best. Just passing each day. Coming into this world is to enjoy life; you can't even handle a little hardship.

Do whatever you want. If I had this much money, I would tell myself to do whatever I want.

Dad said: "A girl dressing well is a source of pride for Dad." Wear beautiful clothes and treat ourselves well.

Not socializing often, avoiding contact with the outside world, and spending every day wrapped up in your own feelings can make you forget that you're a lovely and gentle girl. It can also lead to self-doubt, forgetting how to showcase your charm, and not believing that you're beautiful. Don't forget yourself. If you really like being pretty, dress up confidently and connect with the world. If you feel you have many shortcomings, don't be afraid. Make small changes, and from now on, take each step as a vote toward becoming the person you want to be.

Take a hot bath, lie in a soft blanket, sigh~ so comfortable and so happy

Playing mahjong at my in-laws' house and winning big. I'm still not emotionally intelligent enough. Hahahahaha