I've noticed that some women are just like some men, and there's not much difference. I realized this a long time ago, back when I was in college.

Some men keep themselves very clean and tidy, they have their own style and take care of their appearance.
In my era, people often called them sissy boys.
There's also a term, called屁精 (pì jī), I don't know if you've heard of it. I used to not understand it.
Because at that time, I didn't have this awareness yet, but I thought it was pretty good.
Keeping yourself clean and fresh, maintaining a good figure—why should that be criticized?
But later I found out that there are also women in the same boat—women who are well-groomed and beautiful.
And it seems they also attract some strange malicious comments—being called "tea" or "charming men" by same-sex peers.
I think, what have they even done to deserve that? Why say such things?
Netizen's witty comment:
Humans are social animals.
They naturally resist introverted, quiet, and non-conforming people.
If such people are naturally good-looking and have a good figure,
then resistance can turn into bullying.
Those who can't get what they want might think the other person is pretending,
and surely there's some hidden agenda behind it.
Whether in school or the workplace,
it seems there are no exceptions...