Don't be hard on yourself, and don't insist on entangling with the past. The bonds between people have their limits; sometimes it seems like we are making the decisions ourselves, but whether it’s distancing or becoming strangers, some situations are arranged by fate. What about the connections between people? They're like a ship; everyone has a different course, and while one person has already docked at the previous port, you still cling to the past. This will only delay the arrival of your new connections. You must understand, those who cherish me, I cherish in return; those who abandon me, I abandon as well. Time can test the sincerity between us, but it will also eliminate unsuitable relationships. You won't know the distance of the road until you explore it, and you won't understand the difficulties until you engage with it.