Go ahead and fiercely fabricate yourself, don’t cling to who you are, but focus on who you want to become. There is an important concept in psychology called: self-fulfilling prophecy. Once you firmly believe that a certain expectation will happen, your belief will drive a change in your behavior patterns, which will subtly lead to that event actually occurring. A new personality is woven into shape through countless self-fulfilling prophecies, ultimately taking you to the place you truly want to go.